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Who Is Bobby Flay Dating Now? List Of His Girlfriends & Wives

Attaining worldwide fame and success for his culinary skills, Bobby Flay has not been able to replicate the same success in his married life. Many people are aware of his three marriages and subsequent divorces. But who is Flay dating currently?

Here is everything you need to know about Bobby’s girlfriends and affairs.

Bobby Flay Is Currently In a Relationship With Christina Perez

Presently, the renowned chef is dating a writer, Christina Perez. As of 2024, they have been dating for more than 3 years. Talking about their first meeting, Flay met Perez through a mutual friend about a year before their public reveal.

They disclosed their relationship at the 2021 Breeders’ Cup World Championship in California on November 5. They have been unstoppable since then.

Bobby Flay with his girlfriend Christina Perez
Flay and his girlfriend Perez.

Flay’s bae is said to be a smart, sweet, and stylish woman. Over time, Perez has shared a number of photos along with her partner on her Instagram, showcasing her utmost love for him.

Bobby and Christina Perez Have An age gap of 17 years

Flay and Perez have a 17-year age gap. However, one would think Christina to be half his age due to her youthful appearance.

Bobby Flay and his girlfriend Christina Perez
Bobby and Christina dressed up for a horseracing event.

Flay, born in December 1964 is 59 years old, while his partner Perez is in her early 40s. Despite their significant age gap, the two are leading a rather stable relationship.

More Details On Christina

Christina, currently 42 years old, hails from the Great Lakes region of the Midwest and is currently residing in Los Angeles.

She is a freelance writer and editor. Perez has worked for high-end magazines like Vogue, Condé Nast Traveler, GQ, Architectural Digest, Departures, InStyle, Harper’s Bazaar, Elle, Refinery29, and Gossamer, among many.

Her work focuses on the intersection of travel, design, style, food, well-being, and intentional modern living.

As for her college, Perez attended the Fashion Institute of Technology in New York, taking a course in fashion design. She also studied liberal arts at The New School.

Previous Girlfriends And Affairs Of Bobby Flay

Though a divorcee, Flay has continuously dated different people. His marriage failures did not deter him from pursuing love. Over the years, the famous man has been linked with many ladies.

He has also been accused of having an affair more than once. Here is the list of his girlfriends, both official and rumored:

1. Chelsea Handler

After his divorce settlement with Stephanie March, Bobby was back in the dating game. As per Page Six, the chef went on a romantic dinner date with stand-up comedian and actress, Chelsea Handler.

During her appearance on The Ellen DeGeneres Show in 2016, Handler stated she was going on a date with someone famous and a mutual friend had set them up. That someone might have been Bobby himself.

However, the date was a one-time thing and didn’t lead them to a serious relationship. Handler once mentioned she was disappointed that Bobby didn’t cook for her and there were no further linkups between the two.

2. Helene Yorke

In 2017, Flay invited two special guests for an episode of his show, Beat Bobby Flay. One of them was his then-girlfriend, Helene Yorke. It was then that Bobby spilled about his relationship status and how the two had been dating for a year.

While attending a New York Knicks basketball game, Bobby met Helen at the courtside and the two became interested in each other. He officially dated the actress from 2016 to 2019.

Bobby Flay and his ex-girlfriend Helene Yorke
Bobby at a party with his ex Helene.

Notably, the actress created an Instagram account, @thehungriestgirlfriend, to share their relationship through something both of them love, cooking.

However, the sweet romance crashed in September 2019 when Yorke posted an Instagram photo of kissing another man. This post confused people, and speculations started about their breakup. A month later, on an episode of his show Beat Bobby Flay, the chef stated he had been “kicked to the curb” by Yorke.

Additionally, her alternative Instagram account, mentioned above, has also been deleted since.

3. Giada De Laurentiis

There are some rumors about Faly’s link-up with a fellow chef, Giada De Laurentiis. In some of her interviews, Laurentiis admitted there’s something between them but, it’s strictly platonic. She said,

“Well, we’re very good friends. We’ve worked for many years together, but I don’t think that’s ever going to happen because I’m smarter than that.”

Bobby Flay and his friend Giada De Laurentiis
The pair of close friends at a cooking event.

At present, Giada is dating a boyfriend named Shane Farley. They have been together for several years now.

4. Alleged Affair With Elyse Tirrell

Singer-actress Elyse Tirrell once worked as a bar hostess at the Bar Americain in Midtown, owned by Flay, in 2008. Later, she was hired by Bobby as his assistant. The two were later accused of having an affair by his ex-wife Stephanie in 2015.

But, Bobby’s associates and lawyers refuted the affair. His business partner Laurence Kretchmer defended him, saying,

“Have Bobby and Elyse been seen together? Yes, that’s her job. None of this has any basis in reality.”

Bobby Flay and his assistant Elyse Tirrell
Bobby exiting a luncheon with Elyse

5. January Jones

Flay has been accused of infidelity more than once. During his third divorce, Stephanie accused the chef of committing adultery with actress and model, January Jones. She said that it happened several times during the early months of 2010.

Additionally, in June 2010, TMZ claimed January called Bobby for help when she had an accident. This incident led to his ex-wife questioning the exact nature of their relationship.

Actress and model January Jones, Bobby Flay's alleged girlfriend
Flay had an alleged relationship with January Jones.

Flay and Jones met while watching a basketball game at the London West Hollywood Hotel. The actress later asked for his number because she wanted his advice on redoing her kitchen.

Bobby Flay has been Married And Divorced Thrice

Initially, he was married to fellow chef, Debra Ponzek. The two married a few months after meeting each other in May 1991 and divorced within 2 years.

Bobby Flay's first wife Debra Ponzek
Ponzek was photographed at a restaurant.

Then, Flay tied the knot with Kate Connelly in 1995, and the couple have a daughter, Sophie Flay. Unfortunately, the two parted ways in 1998. They share joint custody of their daughter and seem to have an amicable relationship.

In 2005, almost 7 years after his divorce from Kate, the renowned chef got married to an actress Stephanie March.

Bobby Flay and his ex-wife Stephanie March
Bobby with his third wife March before divorce.

Despite a rosy beginning, the pair had a nasty divorce later in 2015, with tons of negative publicity surrounding the event. As stated earlier, the chef was accused of cheating on the actress and being an emotionally unavailable husband.